Sometimes we are creating our future problems when we do not define well some concepts or when we drive our attention in the wrong direction.
Attention is a limited capacity, so we need to choose carefully where we want to be focus.
We can not do everything and distractions are just the prove that we are not focused in the right direction.
If we need to choose, which are the standards? Right there, at that moment, we usually get confused because we need motivation and we try to find it everywhere. However, if it is not under your control, you can get lost when some things that you will not understand will happen, or when you do your best and you do no achieve what you want.
What should we do then? Redefine some concepts and redirect our attention: